Interrupting When You're Talking
Why you shouldn't ignore it: Your child may be incredibly excited to tell you something or ask a question, but allowing her to butt in to your conversations doesn't teach her how to be considerate of others or occupy herself when you're busy. "As a result, she'll think that she's entitled to other people's attention and won't be able to tolerate frustration," says psychologist Jerry Wyckoff, Ph.D., coauthor ofGetting Your Child From No to Yes.
How to stop it: The next time you're about to make a call or visit with a friend, tell your child that she needs to be quiet and not interrupt you. Then settle her into an activity or let her play with a special toy that you keep tucked away. If she tugs on your arm while you're talking, point to a chair or stair and tell her quietly to sit there until you're finished. Afterward, let her know that she won't get what she's asking for when she interrupts you.
http://www.parents.com/toddlers-preschoolers/development/behavioral/problems-you-shouldnt-ignore/
Of course, there are times when a child must insist on having your attention e,g, wishing to go to the toilet, an unexpected danger to themselves or other children, a medical problem. A child will learn when it is necessary to interrupt as he/she grows older.
http://www.parents.com/toddlers-preschoolers/development/behavioral/problems-you-shouldnt-ignore/
Of course, there are times when a child must insist on having your attention e,g, wishing to go to the toilet, an unexpected danger to themselves or other children, a medical problem. A child will learn when it is necessary to interrupt as he/she grows older.
Look out for problem number 2 tomorrow!
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